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If you're worried about safety in a relationship, Are You OK can help you understand what unsafe relationships look like and provide support if you or someone you know needs help.

We're here to support you and your whānau

Support services are available 24/7. You can speak with a family violence specialist about your next steps, or understanding whether what you or someone else is experiencing is family violence. Services are free and the helpline and chat are available 24/7. 

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Helpline
Speak with a family violence specialist on 0800 456 450
Call the helpline

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Is your relationship safe? We can help you check

Answer the following questions to find out about abusive behaviours and how to find support. Abusive behaviours can be physical actions or they can be more subtle. Some of the language in the quiz can feel confronting - consider doing this with someone you trust. 

What is family violence?

You deserve to be safe

If you're worried about safety in a relationship, you made the right decision coming here.

Bright Sky app
The Bright Sky app provides safe, practical support and information for people concerned about family violence, or worried about the safety of themselves, or someone they care about.
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brightsky phones

Languages and accessible information

Languages
Family violence information in 10 languages
These services assist people who are Deaf, hard of hearing, speech-impaired and deafblind to communicate with others over the phone.
Easy Read PDF
Information on family violence in an accessible, easy to read format.